Data: 18.01.2024
|Autor: Detective Group
Breakup? You were a successful couple until recently. Or so you thought. There were no signs of him leaving. Sometimes you feel like something is wrong, and sometimes the news of his departure hits you like a bolt from the blue. It's understandable that your world is falling apart. You feel so naive and stupid - betrayed, deceived, abandoned.
If someone asked you now whether your heart could be broken, you would have no doubts. Your pain is almost physical, tangible. You feel that nothing makes sense anymore and that nothing good awaits you. You feel like crying. In fact, you have been crying non-stop for days, maybe weeks (you don't know how much time has passed because you are consumed by pain). No, it is not shameful at all. You must not think like that. Crying really has a cleansing effect. There will come a moment when you realize that you no longer have a reason to cry. It is as if all the tears have already been shed. This is the moment when you will start to see things clearly. But before that happens, you need to let your emotions out.
Those are probably the worst words you can hear in a situation like this, right? They sound like a worn-out cliché. You probably think that people who say that have no idea what you’re going through. How can you be okay when your whole world has fallen apart and you’ve been rejected and humiliated in front of the whole world? But you really will be okay. But until then, you’ll go through some really tough stages. You’ll:
- blame yourself;
-she wanted revenge;
– think about it both positively and negatively;
– longing will appear.
The process of getting back on your feet after a breakup takes a long time, but it will eventually come to an end. The only thing you need to remember is not to rush things. No one can tell you when it will happen, but trust that the day will come.
If you have someone in your life who wants to help you, don't reject their help. Maybe their ideas aren't the best, maybe you don't feel like going out or getting dressed right now. Instead, say what kind of help you need. Learn to ask for support. There really is nothing worse than loneliness. And you shouldn't be alone right now.
Just be careful of fake people who take pleasure in your suffering. They will appear out of nowhere. They will be nosy, gossip and may spread rumors. Keep your distance from them because they will only worsen your mental state. Also be careful of those who trivialize your breakup. They will say that it was to be expected and that they never liked your partner. But that is not what you want to hear right now, right?
While it may be tempting to isolate yourself, seeking support from others can go a long way in your recovery. Reach out to your friends, family, and even consider joining support groups where you can connect with others who have experienced similar situations. Having a strong support network around you will remind you that you are not alone and will provide you with the comfort and understanding you need during this difficult time.
Breakups – Using Counseling or Therapy
Sometimes, to navigate the complexities of emotional healing, professional help is necessary. Consider reaching out to a counselor or therapist who can provide you with the guidance and support you may need. A trained professional can offer valuable insights and tools to help you process your emotions, develop coping strategies, and ultimately move forward with newfound strength and resilience.
If your partner leaves you because of suspicion of infidelity, the consequences will be:
- divorce petition,
– a decision on the spouse’s guilt;
– judicial determination of child custody rights;
– or division of property;
prepare well enough for this process in advance. When deciding on your spouse's guilt, you will need documented evidence of infidelity, and a private detective will help you gather this.
Judicial condemnation of the behavior of the guilty spouse also brings psychological relief and allows the innocent spouse to regain self-confidence.
Obtaining a judgment finding the spouse guilty also allows the wronged spouse to rebuild their image and prove who was right.
A divorce based on fault is carried out when one spouse is at fault for the breakdown of the marriage or both parties are at fault. In practice, the procedure is very complicated because the alleged guilty party often does not agree with the spouse's decision.
Reasons for granting a divorce due to the exclusive fault of the spouse:
– adultery;
– leaving spouse/neglecting family;
– refusal to have intercourse;
- addiction;
– physical and/or psychological violence.
If you live in Warsaw or the surrounding area and feel that you need such help, a private detective in Warsaw will indicate the appropriate courses of action during a consultation. They may suggest, for example, observing your partner for a few days or making other necessary arrangements for a divorce case.
DETECTIVE GROUP – Detective agency in Warsaw specializes in this type of activities, providing professional support. We offer our services at the highest level and with commitment.
kontakt@detectivegroup.pl (contact box)
tel. 725-587-801 (for customers from Poland)
tel. 725-587-802 (service also in English)